Tuesday, April 29, 2008

Road Confusion


Some of my daylilies. The herb garden is visible to the left back and you can see the corner of the meditation garden in the upper right.


We call this area the "croquet field". Almost all the shrubs you see in all the pictures are lilacs.

There seems to be some confusion about the road leading to my home. Micki over at Holy Cards for you Inspiration (a must visit site) thinks it's bleek and is wondering where all my trees are located. Uncle Jim thinks it's a driveway, and Adoro thinks a government agency should do the maintenance.

So in the interest of clarification here is a link to the aerial view of our house and our road. You can pan east, west, north, or south by using the little indicator in the upper left hand corner (for anyone who has been living under a rock and has never used MapQuest.) The star is actually on Father Bill's property. The first house is Father Bill, the second (with all the green stuff called trees and bushes) is ours. Uncle Jim, please note our circular driveway. The third is "those who rip up road and pay nothing for maintenance." The fourth is Roger, who keeps us clear of snow. In the picture I posted a few days ago you are looking down the road from in front of Father Bill's barn.

The road you can see to the west of Father Bill running north and south, is a road that belongs to the county. They refuse to do maintenance and so it has deteriorated into a goat trail. Many of the Orthodox use it as a short-cut to church. The property west of that road is the Orthodox Church. Take note of the sidewalk in the form of a cross in their cemetery. They are presently adding on to their church and building a small school.

Our property starts on the west about where the tree line is located and extends east to almost the driveway of "those who rip up road." The back of the property ends where you see the houses behind us. The frontage of each property is about 325 feet so you can see there is a lot of road to maintain. The little line you see making a circle through our property is a trail I keep cut in the grass fields for Father Bill to walk his dogs and is called "Dog Trail." I decided walking his dogs to the end of the road and back was probably not much fun. This way he can make a big circle (and get more exercise.)

The area where Dog Trail starts (by the road) traveling north is actually a shallow gully. That entire area is a wild flower and grass garden and is quite lovely and peaceful. The rectangle is the meditation garden and the circle is the herb garden. The cutting garden and veggie garden are located right behind the "back yard." The daylily beds are all across the back, in the large area to the east of the house, and next to herb garden.


View from our deck - part of what we call our "back yard"

Monday, April 28, 2008

Twelve Steps for Catholics ~ part 8


Step 5


“Admitted to God, to ourselves, and to another human being the exact nature of our wrongs.”

We’ve been working on Step Four of the 12 Steps for Catholics. I have links on the sidebar now for steps 1 through 4 if you need to play catch up. We spent quite a bit of time on Step 4 because it is so important. For us Catholics, it is really an examination of conscience before the Sacrament of Penance.

I focused mostly on anger because for drunks, indeed for most people, it is the emotion that causes the most harm. PaulaB52 over at As We Wait in Joyful Hope has an excellent post on anger. It would do everyone a world of good to read what she excerpted from Catholic Answers with her comments. She also has a link to the entire article.

It’s not a bad idea to write out your “inventory” as we call this examination of conscience in the program. Now we have to do the hardest step of all – we have to tell someone what we have done and list our faults.

“All of A.A.’s Twelve Steps ask us to go contrary to our natural desires - they all deflate our egos. When it comes to ego deflation, few steps are harder to take than Five. But scarcely any step is more necessary to longtime sobriety and peace of mind than this one.” Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions, page 55

Holy Mother Church and the Twelve Steps of A.A. recognize that it is not enough to just sit in a corner and say, “darn, I’ve been bad.” We must tell another person who we really are. How lucky Catholics are to have the wonderful Sacrament of Penance. I did my Step Five in the confessional but for a non-Catholic, a wise, understanding, and trustworthy A.A. sponsor is the next best choice.

This is the first step to true humility. We recognize our deficiencies in an effort to make corrections, and we start to learn about the value of honesty. We all need outside help, and must be willing to take advice.

Warning: The biggest reason we need help is because we all love to take other people’s inventory. I don’t care if your husband is a twit, or whether your kids are driving you crazy, or if your best friend has led you astray. You are a drunk because you drink. End of story! So stick to your own inventory, no excuses and no blaming. This time, it really is all about you.
Milestones

Kit over at By the Brook has graciously handed out awards to celebrate her 100th post. Stop by and congratulate her for this milestone.



And Jackie, the mother of this lot, at Mothers Pride also celebrated her 100th post. These wonderful ladies are celebrating their achievement by giving us awards. How classy is that??

Saturday, April 26, 2008



Spring

in the

Country


We live on a dead end private road. Four houses share this road and we are responsible for the upkeep. Winter took a heavy toll this year and the pot holes were threatening to swallow our cars.

Today we had a dump truck full of wet and very heavy fill delivered. Unfortunately, the dear sweet man that brought the fill had never dribbled fill from a truck. Result? A huge pile of the heaviest stuff imaginable right in front of our driveway.

Solution? Out came the lawn tractor with its cute little Rubbermaid trailer. We started to shovel this into the trailer. When the trailer was full, one of us drove and the other pushed this into the pot holes. Now to be very clear here, we are talking about 400 feet of road that we were working on. The entire road is about 1200 feet long.

After about two hours of this hard labor ,with no end in sight, what do I spy coming down the road? A Bobcat on steroids with a huge blade on the front. When the owner of the Rock Hound heard what had happened he drove over and in less than 30 minutes fixed the entire road.


God is Good


New and Improved Road

Thursday, April 24, 2008

Two for One



Today is my lucky day. Therese over at Aussie Coffee Shop has tagged me as well as Uncle Jim at a second chance. Well - guess what? I've already done this meme. So here's a link to the original meme. The first time I forgot to list my "to do" list and I thought it would just be easier to take a picture of my appointment book. This was a fairly light week.



For those who may be interested I use a Planner Pad. It is one that is recommended for people with Adult Attention Deficit Disorder. For the most part it works great. The top is for things to get done during this week (determined in your weekly planning.) The middle section is for your "to do" list for that day, and the bottom is for your actual appointments.

Upcoming Ordination

Uncle Jim's nephew Dennis at Vita Mea will be ordained June 7th for the Diocese of Memphis. Let's all go over there and flood his combox with prayers and good wishes. Men like Dennis are the future of our Church.

A Must Read!

Padre Giovanni Trigilio over at Black Biretta has a wonderful post today called Catholic Catharsis. Take the time to go over and read it and leave a comment for him. He is, as always, the "voice of reason."

Comment from Mary Jane --- "Adrienne - Just found your blog and wasted a good chunk of time reading back entries. You're going into my favorites." Welcome Mary Jane. Stop back often. When are you going to start a blog of your own????

Irene is starting to exhibit violence because I haven't gotten back to the 12 Steps for Catholics. After developing into a near panic state I buzzed over to her blog and discovered she hasn't even posted since April 8. Since she is out on the road that means we have no idea of where she is hanging out. She could be right down the street from us and we wouldn't even know. Scary!!

Tuesday, April 22, 2008

Cathedral Interior

St. Paul, Minnesota

Original hand brushed, numbered giclee on canvas.





This giclee print on canvas is being offered by dePitera Fine Art Gallery. In the interest of disclosure, this dePitera person is my brother. At some point, shortly after birth, Louis was dropped on his head and so is not responsible for his crazy behavior. But just as I must love my dysfunctional Catholic family, my Mom (who loved me best), taught me that I must love and support my brother.

This print is being offered on ebay and he does have a "make an offer option." My advice? Make an offer. I will see to it that a reasonable offer from one of my readers will be accepted. None of this offer business has been cleared through him and will probably end up in a hot mess of an Italian screaming match on the phone. And to make matters worse the loon didn't even offer me a cut of the action. Tony (Soprano) will be very, very disappointed to hear this.


I did clear the delivery option with him so a local St. Paul or Minneapolis buyer can expect FREE delivery.


Nick Mancini
1926 - 2007

One year ago this week one of St. Paul's icons passed away. I spent many a wonderful evening in Mancini's with my father slopping up martini's and feasting on the best steak in the entire world.

What does this have to do with a picture of the St. Paul Cathedral? Simple - just follow along.

My father, who would have celebrated his birthday on April 25, passed away April 4, 2000. His funeral Mass was celebrated at the St. Paul Cathedral with, to the great joy of my brother, three limousines (Italian men are like that!)

After the wake, the night before the funeral, Mancini's Char House hosted our families huge Italian dinner. Our family, many having flown in from around the world, filled his entire back room. Thanks Nick!


Louis C. Pedro (Pitera)
April 25, 1917
April 4, 2000


If you live in the Twin Cities, stop by Mancini's this week, enjoy a fine meal, and raise a toast to Nick and my Dad.

Sunday, April 20, 2008

Goodbye Holy Father


Come back soon............


Pope Benedict XVI
"It is from within the Church that you too will find the courage and support to walk the way of the Lord. Nourished by personal prayer, prompted in silence, shaped by the Church’s liturgy you will discover the particular vocation God has for you. Embrace it with joy. You are Christ’s disciples today. Shine his light upon this great city and beyond. Show the world the reason for the hope that resonates within you. Tell others about the truth that sets you free."
Address to Seminarians and Young People, April 19

Saturday, April 19, 2008




Winner
First Annual Crescat Awards
Two Categories


I want to thank all the folks who voted for me, both willingly and unwillingly. Since I nominated myself, voted for myself, had Tony (Soprano) covering my back, and The Fixer as my campaign manager - well, who had a chance?
Let's all head over to The Crescat and give Carolina Cannonball a big thank you for providing us with so much fun.


Best More Catholic Than the Pope Blog
Rorate Caeli- 46 votes
Runner Up Athanasius Contra Mundum- 41 votes
Best Blog by a Charismatic Catholic
Runner Up Ad Dominum- 54 votes
Best Blog by a Heretic
Runner Up Dirty Catholic- 21 votes
Best Armchair Theologian
Runner Up God Fearin- 57 votes
Best Blog by a Catholic Crank
Runner UpLair of the Catholic Caveman- 40 votes
Sorriest Excuse for a Catholic Blog
Runner Up Lapped Catholic- 20 votes
Best Under Appreciated Catholic Blogs
Hallowed Ground- 46 votes
Runner Up The Crescat- 36 votes
Best Visual Treat Blog
The Crescat- 58 votes
Runner Up Hallowed Ground- 38 votes
Best Spiritual Treat Blog
Abbey Roads2- 42 votes
Runner Up Our Lady's Tears- 27 votes
Best Hifreakinlarious Blog
Mother's Pride- 71 votes
The Crescat- 71 votes
Runner Up Ironic Catholic- 46 votes
Best Bat Shit Crazy Blog
Orthometer- 103 votes
Runner Up The Crescat- 39 votes
Best Church Militant Blog
Orthometer- 120 votes
Runner Up Mulier Fortis- 79 votes
Best Liberal Neo-Trad Catholic Blog
Runner Up Ad Dominum- 40 votes
Snarkiest Catholic Blog
Runners Up Christus Vincit- 25 votes
The Crescat- 25 votes
Best Potpourri of Popery
Rorate Caeli- 79 votes
Runner Up Shoved to Them- 75 votes

Well done, New York



Friday, April 18, 2008

Holy Father Watch

Pope Benedict Speaks to the U.N.

Peace be with you.......

Isn't being Catholic great? We are like a huge dysfunctional family that has to love one another and everyone else - no matter what. I love you guys!

Thursday, April 17, 2008

Washington Papal Mass


Shame on you, Bishop Wuerl

That's right, reading public - I'm breaking my own rule about not being negative, catty, and just plain snarky. These are all things in which I excel around the dining room table (just in case anyone thought I was Miss Goody Two Shoes.)

I just finished watching the Papal Mass and the shock of the music makes me want to crawl under a rock and hide. I had already read many bad reviews but the reality was so much worse.

To quote Father Blake:

"Words like meaningless, culturally bankrupt, saccharine, lack of intellectual conviction, trivial, decadent, debased, rootless, superficial, inauthentic, inconsequential, secular, and horizantalist come to mind - none of these words come to mind when one thinks of the Pope.
Is this really the image that AmChurch wants to present to itself and the world?? Badly done Archbishop Wuerl, very badly done."


and also Jeffrey Tucker at NLM:

"And it was to the grave embarrassment of all American Catholics that the music employed at the papal Mass at the Nationals stadium in Washington, D.C., not only represented a repudiation of everything that this pope has written on music appropriate to Mass. We can go further to say that there is no robust tradition of liturgical scholarship that is capable of defending what happened, and that is because it is indefensible. "
Pope Celebrates Mass

I know I promised to move on with the Steps of Alcoholics Anonymous for Catholics, but I am just too taken up with the visit of the Pope. Let us all spend this time listening to his message of hope.

Wednesday, April 16, 2008

HAPPY BIRTHDAY HOLY FATHER




"We need your message to reject this dictatorship of relativism and embrace a culture of justice and truth," President Bush

Tuesday, April 15, 2008



Yesterday Phillip at Carpe Canem lost his best friend and business partner Stephen. His beautiful shepherd, Siena, also made her final journey to the vet after Stephen went to be with our Lord. Please offer your prayers to Phillip at this difficult time.
Update from Phillip: "On a happier note, the vet decided that Siena might respond to some medication and so she was not put to sleep this afternoon after all. Her course is for ten days, so I pray that she will respond well to the treatment."

Monsignor Georg Gaenswein is coming today and he's bringing the Holy Father with him.

Monday, April 14, 2008


Choirs of
Heavenly
Angels
Yesterday evening we were privileged to be able to hear some wonderful sacred music at St. Thomas Catholic Church in Coeur d’ Alene. Local artists, including several sisters who last June left the schismatic group at Mount St. Michael's in Spokane, beautifully performed the music. When fifteen of these brave ladies made the decision to come into full union with the Church they were welcomed into the Spokane Diocese and given housing at the Immaculate Heart Retreat Center. They have formed a new order of traditionalist sisters who still wear full habits.

I was privileged to have had the opportunity to get to know these ladies when I worked at the Costco on the north side of Spokane since the sisters from the Mount did most of their shopping there. Bishop Skylstad invited the Missionaries of Charity (Mother Theresa’s order), to come to Spokane with the express purpose of visiting and praying for these sisters. They named their new order the Sisters of Mary, Mother of the Church. Welcome home, sisters.

Concert List
Liturgical Year Sampling

Veni, Veni Emmanuel – found in Psalteriolum Canionum Catholicarum
Let All Mortal Flesh Deep Silence - arr. Boehnke 19th century
Puer Natus in Bethlehem - Gregorian Chant
Lo How a Rose - arr. Michael Preatorious
Gloria from Mass of the Shepherds
Jesu Dulcis Memoria - St. Bernard of Clairvaux
Jesu, Rex Admirabilis - Palestrina
Be Thou My Vision
O Sacred Head Surrounded
Adoramus Te - arr. Dubois
Haec Dies arr Orste Ravanello
This Joyful Eastertide - G.R. Woodward
Maria Magdalene - Andrea Gabrieli
Regina Coeli - arr. Antonio Lotti
Ave Maria - arr. Jaques Arcadelt
Ave Maria Victoria
Ave Maris Stella - arr. Benedictines of Einsiedeln
Sing of Mary Roland Ford Palmer
Hail O Queen of Heaven Enthroned
Veni Creator Spiritus - arr. Rabanus Maurus
Holy Spirit Lord of Light
Ave Verum - Gregorian Chant
Adoremus in Aetenum
O Sacrum Convivium
We Thee Adore - written and arr. Michael Haydn
Cor Dulce, Cor Amabile
To Praise the Heart of Jesus - written and arr. P. Griesbacher
Laudate Dominum quia benignus est - arr. C. Rossini
O Bone Jesu! - Written and arr. Palestrina
Soul of My Savior - arr. Lorenzo Dobici
Sicut Cervus - Palestrina
Tollite Hostias - arr. C. St. Saens
Crown Him with many Crown - written and arr. G.J. Elvey
The Twelve Steps for Catholics will continue tomorrow. I wanted everyone to work on their anger issues.


Mark Stapleton and his beautiful wife have a podcast called The Talk Therapy Podcast.

"This is the podcast where the material, spiritual, and emotional worlds meet and where we examine all of life through the a recovery lens. We are also in the process of discerning a vocation to the Permanent Diaconate for the Archdiocese of Detroit. Join us, a family in the Great Lakes region of the United States. Anna is a Psychologist and Mark is a Professional Engineer. We are familiar with 12-step recovery programs and try to practice these principles in all our life."

Sunday, April 13, 2008

Gifts and Awards


This week I received a wonderful gift. A very handsome and much younger man sent me the two volume set of Agnus Dei sung by The Choir of New college, Oxford and........................The Face: Jesus in Art, a two hour DVD.










To quote the back cover of the DVD - " The Face: Jesus in Art takes viewers from ancient Rome to 20th-century America, from Europe to the Middle East, to illuminate the most beautiful and spectacular representations of Jesus and his stories. The program feature up close views of the catacombs of Rome, Michelangelo's work, the treasures of Chartres Cathedral and much more."


So now you know where I have been the past few days. Gazing into the face of Jesus and listening to the heavenly choirs sing.


If that wasn't enough, The Fixer over at Little Pink Toolbox made me an award. She has learned from her Mother of this Lot, that I whine, cry, and otherwise make a fool of myself if someone doesn't acknowledge me.

Thursday, April 10, 2008

Signs of Spring





More Signs of Spring






Lilac Buds


I Love Awards

Jackie over at Mother's Pride has once again outdone herself handing out awards. She actually called me a thinker.

And in case you didn't know - one of her brilliant daughters now has a blog all her own. The Fixer can be found at Little Pink Toolbox. We should all be so lucky to have such full comment boxes.

Voting continues over at The Crescat. I am nominated in just about every category because I nominated myself. It appears that Thom at Ad Dominum and I are having a bit of a "vote war" for Best Blog by a Charismatic Catholic. I like Thom. I think Thom is a really great guy. HOWEVER, Thom is 24 years old. There is nothing really wrong with being 24 years old - nothing at all. And I'm not jealous because he has a beautiful new header on his blog. No siree, Bob! Not jealous at all.

I

JUST

HATE

TO

LOSE!!!!!

Ok - that's out of my system. Head on over and cast a vote for this maturely charasmatic (in the good sense of the word) lady.

Thank you in advance.
Huh??


Can someone please explain to me why authorities are raiding polygamist compounds to save young girls when at the same time they are handing out condoms to middle school children?

Tuesday, April 8, 2008

Twelve Steps for Catholics ~ part 7

Humorous Pictures

More Step Four


In order to take a good hard look at our defects of character, we first must know what to look for. The Seven Deadly Sins of pride, greed, lust, anger, gluttony, envy, and sloth will make a wonderful “working list” for us. Every Deadly Sin has a corresponding Virtue but in order to build that virtue, we must first dig around and identify the sin.

The process of taking your moral inventory is not the time for wailing and moaning. It is a period of stepping back and looking at ourselves calmly and realistically. During an Ignatian Retreat, this same examination takes place and the retreatent is warned to be objective. The time for sorrow will come, but only after the work has been done.

We need to start with Pride because it is the root of most other sins. It is our pride that leads to self-pity, resentments, and anger. In today’s society, we have become the center of our existence. We expect circumstances and people to bend to our will. When that doesn’t happen we become angry and resentful. Every alcoholic who is diligently working the program recognizes anger and resentment as being dangerous and deadly emotions. Scratch the surface and you will find that ugly animal pride urging us on.

I spend lots of time getting angry. If I step back and take a look, it is usually because someone has attacked my fragile ego. “How dare those people ignore or disagree with me.” And if you’re headed to the combox with itchy fingers to talk about “righteous” anger, don’t bother. Engaging in righteous anger is like taking poison and waiting for the other person to die.

When I am really angry, I will often dump it all on my pastor, usually closing my tirade with the words, “do I have a right to be angry?” His answer is always the same. “Sure, but it’s what you do with the anger that is important.”

"Let us examine our ways and test them, and let us return to the Lord." (Lamentations 3:40)

Friday, April 4, 2008

Twelve Steps for Catholics part 6




Step 4

“Made a searching and fearless moral inventory of ourselves.”

What we refer to in A.A. as “misdirected instinct” is regarded in the Catholic Church as “disordered desires.” God has given instincts and desires which has made us fully human. We have a natural desire to be secure, have food and shelter, and to reproduce. When these natural and wholesome desires start to dominate our life they can cause great harm to our emotional makeup.

Twelve Steps &Twelve Traditions page 42 -

“Step Four is our vigorous and painstaking effort to discover what these liabilities in each of us have, and are. We want to find exactly how, when, and where or natural desires have warped us. We wish to look squarely at the unhappiness this has caused others and ourselves. By discovering what our emotional deformities are, we can move toward their correction. Without a willing and persistent effort to do this, there can be little sobriety or contentment for us. Without a searching and fearless moral inventory, most of us have found that the faith which really works in daily living is still out of reach.

We all have this problem - not just alcoholics. For any of us to work toward order in our lives, we must first figure out what parts are disordered. If like so many people today, you are in the process of uncluttering your household, this is going to be similar to diving into the junk drawer. Junk drawers become that way because when we open them, our response is usually a feeling of being overwhelmed. It is much easier to close the drawer and like Scarlet O’Hara, “deal with it tomorrow.”

During the inventory process, we will become more honest and realistic about whom we are. Working Step Four is perhaps the first time some people have had a chance to look at themselves honestly and with compassion. You are not alone in this process. God is with you and prepared to help.


Search me, O God, and know my heart; test me and know my anxious thoughts. See if there is any offensive way in me, and lead me in the way everlasting. Psalm 139:23,24


Twelve Steps for Catholics

Thursday, April 3, 2008


Tagged Again
It's All About Meeeeeeee!

Mac over at Mulier Fortis tagged me days and days ago. I just managed to get our paperwork to our tax guru so I’ve reclaimed what little life I have.

The rules of the game get posted at the beginning.
Each player answers the questions about themselves.
I get to tag 5 peeps and let them know via their combox.

What I was doing 10 years ago:

I have no earthly (or heavenly) clue. I can barely remember what I was doing yesterday. Since I have lived in this house about 11 years, one thing I know for sure I was probably doing was working my rear patootie off in the “yard.” We bought a house on 5 acres that looked like it had been nuked (the property - not the house, although the house was only marginally better.) There was not one tree, bush, or blade of grass. What we did buy, in abundance, was knapweed. The hugest knapweed I have ever seen. Knapweed for those who may not know is the most hated and virulent noxious weed God ever allowed on this earth. He put it here to keep us humble. I am very, very humble.

The first few years we planted over 150 trees and over 50 shrubs. We also planted 50 or 75 lilacs that we acquired by digging up starts from a vacant lot. We designed and planted a circular herb garden, a cutting garden, a veggie garden, a meditation garden and a wildflower area. We fenced in a “yard” area and planted beds there. We put in a circular drive and several acres of grass. After that I said, darn, why don’t I start a daylily nursery. So we plowed up a bunch of the grass and planted daylilies – hundreds and hundreds and hundreds of daylilies.

All this was done without benefit of big equipment. Can you say garden fork, shovel, and rake? I am truly nuts. Truly!
And guess what's sitting in my barn? You bethca! Six trees, 30 shrubs, and bags of bulbs.

5 Snacks I enjoy:
Nachos with real cheddar cheese and buried in jalapenos
Anything with lots of carbs.

Things I would do if I were a billionaire:
I would build us a new church but would insist on being in complete control of the design. I would buy a tractor and hire someone to pull weeds.

Five jobs that I have had:
Ballroom dance instructor.
Hairdresser
Cocktail waitress while in college
Teacher
Car salesman

Three of my bad habits:
Being controlling, being controlling, and being controlling.
Five places I have lived:
St. Paul, Minnesota
Houston, Texas
Minneapolis, Minnesota
Sedona, Arizona
Phoenix, Arizona
Post Falls, Idaho

I know that’s six but I figured I’d just include them all and in their proper order.


I tag anyone who hasn't been tagged yet. Let us know in the combox if you are playing.